Who are the Essential People in Your Life?
During this time, we have always lived together with other people. It can be family, relatives, neighbors, teachers, and friends. They are people who play a role in our lives. Those who always make us happy, or vice versa. Of all the experiences we have gone through, it certainly leaves a variety of impressions.
People who interact and come into contact with us are not all part of our closest circle, and not all of them are part of a meaningful relationship. Usually, there are only a few that matter. And what we consider essential are the people who deserve to be happy.
The older I get, the more I realize that people come and go. Some come, then go. Some people come, stop for a while, then leave. Yes. We must learn to accept and let go.
The people who will always be in my life are my family. However, my siblings have lived with their own small families. I’m the only one who spends more time with my parents. It feels a bit heavy when someday I will leave my parents and build my own family.
I need to take advantage of this current closeness by making them happy.
Apart from my parents, many people have played a role in my life. They are also important people. Those are teachers, coaches, and close friends. They filled in the blanks in my life. I want to make them happy, too.
Who are the essential people in your life?
You are also definitely surrounded by many people. Kind people. Apart from your parents, there must be other people you want to make happy. Think about it. Who are they?
Now, think about how to make them happy. In my opinion, it doesn’t have to be complicated. It could be a simple thing.
Moreover, we also meet people who like to make us resentful. They have hurt us subtly or rudely. However, we must be willing to forgive them. Forgive them sincerely.
Sincere forgiveness will make it easier to let negative feelings or emotions go. Whether we realize it or not, negative feelings can block or inhibit the energy flows in our bodies.
Then, when you forgive sincerely, the blocked energy will flow more easily. A flow of energy that makes you happier.
Last but not least, we all deserve to be happy. We can make people happy, too. From now on, always remember the person that matters. Let’s make them happy in any way. They are meaningful people in your life. Then, forgive the people who made mistakes for you. So, the positive energy flows freely in your body. It’s the energy that makes you happy.